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About Gun Shy Butterfly

Julie Exter and Andrea White of bubble grunge duo Gun Shy Butterfly are lifelong musicians who have been searching for a seemingly elusive ideal. Put simply, the pair have longed to play snarling rock n’ roll in an all-female band with dedicated and accomplished musicians.

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“I’ve chased this dream for so long.”


“There is magic and power in creating with others that have the same body, and experience the same societal pressures,” Exter says. “Until now, I never found people with the same level of musicianship, desire, and goals,” White chimes in: “I feel the same. Julie is like the magical unicorn I never thought I’d find.”

White and Exter are both formidable singer-songwriters and multi-instrumentalists active in a variety of bands on the Philly indie rock scene. Today, their Philadelphia-based two-piece band steps forward with its debut EP, Uncomplicated.

Gun Shy Butterfly meld sugary harmonies and urgent hooks

with fuzzed-out guitars for a tough and tuneful sensibility evoking the 1990s alt-rock, grunge, and Riot Grrrl scenes, especially bands like Veruca Salt, L7, The Breeders, and Bleach-era Nirvana. Exter and White pen lyrics that are both intelligent and incendiary, smoldering with social commentary and justified anger. Both musicians are gifted guitarists, drummers, bassists, and vocalists with well-developed songwriting sensibilities.

The band’s evocative name embodies an abstraction of raw female energy. “I wanted a name that represented transformation. That showed getting through the hardest shit and turning into a beautiful thing, like a butterfly,” White says. While rhyming and riffing, she added Gun Shy to represent meeting the same challenges over and over again, distrusting the outcome, but going for it anyway. Which is sometimes what it feels like to be a woman.

White and Exter have garnered critical acclaim and toured regionally with other bands. White’s previous band, the pop-punk band Stewart, placed a song in Rock Band, and played CMJ twice. Exter currently sings and plays guitar in the sad girl rock band, Sacred Monsters, and co-hosts the popular Philadelphia music and comedy scene podcast, Rock N LOL.

Outside of creative pursuits, White and Exter are mothers in their 40s, and, in that sense, the pair are challenging preconceived notions of what it means to be a devoted mother who is also a dedicated artist. “I get judgement from other people, like ‘why are you still out there doing this?’ This is my primary outlet. I can do what I love and still be a present and loving mother,” shares Exter. White adds: “I’m always juggling having a full-time job, scheduling everything for the family, and doing music. I don’t sleep very much.”


Gun Shy Butterfly was established in September 2024

when White and Exter indirectly met through a Craigslist ad. The women soon discovered they had an intuitive artistic connection, and complementary songwriting strengths. “Our connection is special because it feels very uncomplicated which hasn’t been the case for me,” White says. The duo’s six-song EP salutes this ease of communication and collaboration, and its title also references Gun Shy Butterfly’s specialty: no frills, open-hearted loud-guitar rock.


The snarling surf punk of “Completely Justified” chronicles White’s traumatic experience at the hospital giving birth to her son. She sings: This rage I have inside/Is completely justified/And do you feel helpless too?/Is that what motivates you?/No one wants to hear/all the hard things that go wrong/I feel so overwhelmed/That’s why I sing this song. “I was so angry about how my body was treated, but it’s not just about that experience, it speaks to the rage of women everywhere in this political climate,” White says.

“Dark Side” features thick walls of feed-back dripping power chords, barbed alt-rock riffs, strangled guitar leads, and pounding Dave Grohl-style drums. “Dark Side” is about a relationship White was in where being complicit in a friend’s actions led to losing her social circle while he got off consequence free.

The grungy “Manchild” features one of those cyclical, catchy but not overly poppy chord sequences replete with pummeling drums. Exter and White’s harmony vocals here bring a sweet sass to the proceedings. This song calls out the condescending stance many men take while working with women. The opening lines smolder. Julie sings: Manchild, you give me such a headache/You want the whole world on its knees.


Gun Shy Butterfly will primarily be a recording project—

but the women will make one rare performance for Exter’s Rock N LOL Podcast’s spring variety show, on Saturday, May 10th, 2025 at Rivet in Pottstown, PA. Reflecting back on it all, White says succinctly: “Remember those heart necklaces where each person gets a half, but together they are whole? That’s what we are to each other.”

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Lead Singer & Songwriter

Julie Exter

Your favorite local musician’s favorite local musician, Julie is a powerful force of songwriting production and musical prowess.

Lead Singer & Songwriter

Andrea Tarka White

Hook doctor and songstress Andrea has a knack for simplicity and a passion for telling it like it is.